Sometimes Only Beauty Can Talk To Your Beast

Disney characters are not my usual choice of subject matter but I must admit that my mind has presently become enchanted by the story of ‘Beauty and the Beast‘.

A witch places a curse upon a handsome Prince turning him into a beast because of the horror of his character. An old man is held captive by the beast due to an accident and his daughter Belle goes on a rescue mission to get her father back but falls into a much bigger adventure; falling in love and releasing the Beast from his curse.

This tale has a happy ending but life does not always grant us such a wish. Although this story is make-believe, it also mirrors human reality.  We are allured into a display of unconditional love. The fierce awakened heart of Belle vs the dead heart of the Beast.

Belle’s beauty not only entices the natural eye but is also within. Beauty is defined in the dictionary as;

The quality present in a thing or person that gives intense pleasure or deep satisfaction to the mind, whether arising from sensory manifestations (as shape, colour, sound, etc.), a meaningful design or pattern, or something else (as a personality in which high spiritual qualities are manifest).

It is a personality and character trait, not just an external mark. Belle’s internal beauty not only accepts but unrestrictedly loves. The bravery of her heart pours out love and life to the Beast who is cold and uninviting in nature.

What I love about both characters other than their vast differences is their need for each other. Life must meet with death.

Life can cause us to become like the Beast; ugly. Part of our nature, our character turns wild in order to cope with how we have handled life. We can become cold on the inside whilst operating as normal in society. Externally we have it all going on but internally we are or have died.

We can bring the term ‘living dead’ to life, physically alive but internally sleeping.  The Beast was as fine as can be. He operated in all his powers and duties as Prince but a part of him was quite dead on the inside.

The thought came to me recently that we all need beauty in our lives. Pure and true love brings forth a deeper beauty that outshines its external counterpart. The kind of love that melts hearts and is not destructive or lustful. Belle’s warm heart and loving nature freed an enslaved Prince from his cruel and selfish nature. We all need a nature in life that causes us to become better.

This can be seen in the relationship of Phoebe and Cole in the TV series Charmed. Cole is a half human/ half demon (Belthazor) sent to kill Phoebe and her sisters who are witches. Cole falls in love with Phoebe and it is this love that not only saves Phoebe and her sisters but also Cole. The beauty of love from Phoebe takes over and helps the beast inside Cole.

 

Again this happens  in the film Dracula: Untold. In order to protect his kingdom Prince Vlad becomes a monster (vampire). When the beast inside of him becomes stronger it is his wife who calms the beast through love by reminding him of who he really is.

These examples show beauty and love through the vessel of a woman but I want us to look beyond gender and see that the real beauty is expressed through their internal nature. This beauty within them and a ‘knowing’ of who they are paves way for unconditional love, continuous persistence and strength to accept those they love. Out of this strength a hope and grace is released which empowers them to walk alongside a beast nature until the original nature comes back.

Sometimes it is hard to talk to a beast but love can break through. On our good and bad days we can all become like the Hulk. Kind words, encouragement, wise counsel and advice; anything that awakens us inside is important. Not a quick fix pill but a character and nature that transforms us into who we really are.

The beast transformed back into the Prince but had changed his nature. Cole eventually lost Phoebe due to his dark side and lived in regret, never losing or forgetting his love for her. A battle caused Prince Vlad to lose his wife and he became a monster for eternity.

We always have a choice in the matter of who we become. We cannot control life circumstances or guarantee our endings but we can choose who we are. We must allow beauty to transform us when presented with it in its true form, accept true love. Finding this is a process but your journey with true beauty and love must begin.

 

 

Will You Let Me See Beneath Your Beautiful?

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The words in this song are so captivating. They literally are asking to see someone, to see behind the outer exterior and into the inner person; their soul. Humans are funny beings, the one thing which has never changed even from Adam and Eve is our ability to HIDE. We are masters of hiding. We have all heard those stories, if not our own, where we ourselves or others have hid so well that people never really know who we are. When you really think about it it is actually quite scary.

Life has its fair share of trials and challenges, these then help to shape the person we become. Everyone is different and things affect everyone in different ways. Once our character is shaped by what we go or have gone through we act accordingly to the affects. For example if someone hurts me I would just lock them off as it is easier to not deal with that person and the associated pain I now connect with them. A good way to look at it is through the visual of make-up. Make-up is used to cover up imperfections and bring light to our best assets. Truly what it does is hides what is really underneath and highlights that which we want it to highlight. What we want you to see we will show you and that which we don’t want you to see we will hide from you.

When our heart, mind and behaviours come to the surface, this is where these song lyrics come into play. When we really see beneath a persons beautiful, that outer appearance; are we really ready to accept that? Are we really ready to see beneath someone’s beautiful? The lingering question being;

“Can you accept who I really am?”

We all say that we should accept people for who and what they are and do. However let’s face it, if we are really honest with ourselves and each other we really don’t always accept people for who they really are or what they do most times. Society has become obsessed with the outside man, forgetting that what is inside the man is the true reflection of who he is (man in this context being universal for man or woman).

And he said, “What comes out of a person is what defiles him. (Mark 7:20 – English Standard Version)

Whether you believe in the Bible or not this principle still stands. Take for example if someone says a mean comment. The comment comes from their heart and mind (thoughts), it flows from the inside out. What is inside man is far more true and potentially far more dangerous than that which is outside.

No one is perfect, we all do things our own way. We handle things the best we can or think we can and it is not always the best way but at that time it is. We form habits, build addictions or simply repress, suppress, over compensate or ignore emotions; allowing our actions to follow our decisions. With account of all this in mind, can you really accept a person through all this? Through when they treat you good or bad based upon their stories, based upon their feelings, based upon their past or present? Again I ask you, Are we really ready to see beneath someone’s beautiful?

It is like when you find out something about someone and you do not like what you have found out. What do you do? Do you hide behind a veil, run or simply accept it?Again the question that comes to mind is Are we really ready to see beneath someone’s beautiful? Them secretly asking, Can you accept who I really am?

If someone shows you who they really are can and will you still accept them?

Where do you stand?…